You are so phat!
Why is that in this world people feel justified in commenting candidly to someone about their body? For the most part, it's the first thing we notice and then depending on if the body has changed (weight gain or loss) we get fixated, barely hearing another word from the person's mouth, as if we're looking at an object and studying it without accounting for the whole being. We look, assess, and then out of the mouth comes the nonsense and into the mouth goes the foot. If the body has not changed at all eg: aged, gone up in down in proportion, hair color etc.. then we look, assess, have nothing to comment on and have what seems to be a normal conversation. But it always starts (for most of us) with assesment and ends in judgement, that is until we get conscious and it doesn't end in judgement anymore. For example: I remember when I lived in Mansfield a few years back and I went to the surprize 40th birthday of an old friend from high school. While meandering abou