I know for sure...
"When you know that there is enough, you stop competing with others. You stop competing for love, or money, or sex, or power, or whatever it is you felt there was not enough of. The competition is over." - Communion With God by Neil Donald Walsh. I have not stopped competing as a rule. Sometimes I stop, but then I stop stopping and compete. Walsh goes onto say "This alters everything. Now instead of competing with others to get what you want, you begin to give what you want away. The reason for this is clear. It has nothing to do with the fact that what you have done is "morally right," or "spiritualy enlightened," or the "Will of God". It has to do with a simple truth: There is noone else in the room. There is only one of us ." I love this! Oh don't get me wrong, I am not so generous all the time. I eat becaus I believe in lack. I use food to fill this black velvet void that I believe lives somewhere inside of me (w